am I wrong about my girlfriend hangin out with all the ppl she used to hook up with? ( exes )?

Matt Asked: am I wrong about my girlfriend hangin out with all the ppl she used to hook up with? ( exes )?

so my gf of 8 months is honestly what I think is my perfect match but there are a few things that really hurt me and bother me. As I'm laying down wityh her shes textin an old f*** buddy and I see the dates and It's nearly every day! So I back off and just try to sleep so that I can calm down n maybe askher nicely to just cool out. But she has this serious paranoia that freaks her out when i ask her to just compromise slightly n not tlk to him sooo much. But she thinks im trying to change her from a cat to a dog or sumthing n her complex freaks out n she acts vendictive back to me. But I do trust her because shes honest… But after sum things i found out it seems that everyone around me is sumone "significant " from the past.. the past is the past but thats usually where it stays! n a few things have caused me to b a lil insecure so its hard to deal with. Even if they never did hookl up it would still b difficult n wrong of her to tlk to another man as often.. but when I woke up the fitrst thing she did was "go get an iced coffee" n as soon as she got back, shes still texting him.. So i said, in a quiet but slightly aggravated tone, "babe r u ftricken serious? I cant deal with you textin him all the time! its wrong! Itll never work if u keep doing thisd so often so either you hafta cool out with that or i hafta go hom to the train station" she sed, "fine ill bring you to the train station" rather than just compromising a LITTLEEEEEEEE BIT! N before she has told me to maybe just go work out n that i shud goo to skool so i can make more money for the future n one day i sewd i feel like u just want a muscle head scholar who has a lot of money… but when she was dropping me off she called me an insecure jealous piece of **** portagee n that i shud jus go hang out with my friend who are stupid portagees ANNNDDDDDD she said that I was just jealous of this ex " f**K buddy's" muscles and jealous of another kid she hangs out withs' brains! tlk about heartache! but what do I do?!! am I wrong to ask her to back off the texting n hanging out with him n not be so personal n comfortable with the kidd? I am not asking her to not ever talk to him whuich some would say that I have the right to! idk pls help me!!! she thinks im soooo controlling by jus asking to tell me when she sees him and to keep the txts n contact to a low medium or minimum…