Should I leave my husband?

n f Asked: Should I leave my husband?

I met my now husband online. We spoke over the interenet for a few then we met. It seemed to go very well. After a couple months we moved into gether. About a month after we moved in I caught him looking at porn instead of having sex with me and he will not watch porn with me and then about a week later I caught him masterbating right after I left the room and we were having sex at least once a day at this point. A couple months later I found out we were pregnant then we got married. The day we got married he started showing me less respect. During the whole pregancy he pushed me away and said I don't like to think about but said he was happy to be having a baby. I keep catching lies that he had told me in the beginning and now. I have a daughter who has had heart surgery and a heart condition that will always be there and I cannot talk him into smoking outside, he says the bathroom fan sucks enough but I can smell it throughout the house and now he is smoking with our now 8 month old son in the room. My husband does not give me compliments and every other person I"ve been with did so I know I'm not ugly. My husband rarely gets me flowers or anything or says thank you to me and I take care of 5 kids and 4 dogs and a 3 bedroom house. When I first met my husband I found his ex's sex outfits and their pornos and lotions but he does not try to use stuff like that in our sex life. My husband talks a lot to other people but we could sit together for hours and he won't say a word. My husband has been acting less and less affection and I ask for more and he refuses to show me anymroe. I have spoke with him about these issues and he doesn't say anything and when I ask if I should just leave he says maybe but he loves me. I don't know if I should stay or go. I want to stay I love him and the kids love him but I'm confused if he loves me back the way he should.