Why am I "that guy"? (long story)?

Asked: Why am I "that guy"? (long story)?

I am 19, I go to college, I am a pretty normal guy, i'm good looking, well mannered, love baseball, love dogs, etc.

The only thing I don't understand about myself is what I am doing wrong. I never had a girlfriend, always wanted one. I have a best friend, and a couple others i stay in touch with, but we never hang out, never do anything "fun". I jst sit around at home all summer, work for my uncle doing construction a couple days out of the week, ride my road bike 30 mi. every other day.

My parents, grandparents, and recently the rest of my family are always asking did I find a girlfriend yet, and i always tell them no, i havent. I really let my parents down when I told them I didn't have a date for my high school dances, including senior ball and didn't want to go by myself (my brother was homecoming king afterall). I meet a lot of people in school in class, in the dorms, but nothing ever happens. i get there number, i try to make plans, not too aggresively, or stalker-ish, just casual, nnothing seems to work.

I guess i'm left to ask myself what's wrong, because I don't see it. there are plenty of guys who i would consider undesirable,that end up with girls I would love to date, or just hang out with as friends. I'm fustrated that I meet all these wonderful people in my life, and no one sticks around to just enjoy being with me. creeping up on 20 years old, I don't want to be single and alone anymore, I want to enjoy things

I am sad, depressed, and lately, un-confident in my future. Maybe someone can give me some advice, anything helps. thanks for reading this, i appreciate it.